How many times in the life of every day we try to behave a certain way because "you do not have to think that ...". We are conditioned behavior that is in what we think the opinions of others. I then step to the moments where I feel perfectly natural and at peace with myself at times when I feel the breath on the neck of the opinions of others, but not limited to people I know, but from everyone. I do a silly example, I know, it can become embarrassing to go to the pharmacy to buy a box of condoms or go buy a present for someone idiot. But there would be examples of the infinite and then each of us has his cases. Thursday I was at the hairdresser waiting for my turn and I wanted to read a newspaper, and near it stood a number of newspapers, all clearly a woman, like Vogue, Vanity Fair, plus a three day old newspaper. Here, I would give him a peek at Vogue, but I took the newspaper on Monday because "you do not have to think I'm queer." Or, are no longer went to dinner with my gay friend, because people did not think I'm gay too. They are nonsense but, unfortunately, is stronger than me. We often think too much and nonsense. Like when we do a thousand reasons, thousands of projects, a thousand contortions to tackle a problem or achieve a goal. And very often this is useless. The currents of life are too strong for our small sail and take us where they want to fight and becomes useless. Of course, something we can do, the dreams are just that, namely to create a predisposition to make things avvenghino avvenghino or not, we say to leave the fertile ground in front of us. So, if you want something strongly or do not want for nothing just as strongly, maybe create that mental or spiritual path that brings us closer or take us away from something. But then we can not do more. So, there inlaid with unnecessary concepts and discourses that lead us only to live life with more weight, attached to our backyard and closed, limited in the naturalness with which instead should be lived. Clearing the mind preconceptions useless it becomes essential to give us the grace that only in the spontaneity and lightness of spirit and can achieve. Go with the life is sometimes more interesting and less tiring .
